About the SSU

For those of you who don't know what the SSU is about. It's a group of adults who enjoy being spanked but also enjoy teasing their spankers (all in fun of course) about unfair spankings, their choice of implements, their lack of attention or their abundance of attention. Pretty much anything a bratty spankee wants to share is always welcome here at the SSU. Being a fair and (kinda) equal union, we do let the spankers defend themselves and then the Union members vote whether the potential violation is valid or not. Yes, sometimes even us spankees can be wrong. Above all else, it's a lot of fun and a chance to get to know others who enjoy this thing we do. So come on in, join and unite! It's your union!

September 2, 2012

The Spankers Blog

There's a new blog in town and I say it's about time...

It's pretty basic but gives the pertinent information about Spankers as they join.  

It has pictures of their most important equipment.. their hands and their paddles!!!

It also has some valid opinions about what's important to them about spanking as well as contact information, so Spankees in need of a good, qualified, Spanking know who to call... and it's not GhostBusters.. it's RumpRoasters LOL

Check out   The Spankers Blog   and if you are a Spanker.. sign up.. Spankees' bottoms are waiting!!!

September 1, 2012

~*~Welcome Misty, Chuck48 & Crimson~*~

Welcome Misty, Chuck48, and Crimson to the SSU!!!

These new Union members haven't sent me any links or pictures to share as of yet but I do know that one thing the Suzy Spanking Union is great for is for making new spanko friends and enticing them to share their stories and pictures with us!

  When Misty joined she said "Interested in some honest conversation about spanking, I wanna join :)" and here we've been gone all Summer.. not good.. so to start off some honest conversation, here's a picture of a very hard spanking I received a while ago and this was a paddle we were sent that was actually a draft of the paddle idea they were working on.  I remember clearly saying how I'd be 'totally fine' waiting until the final finished paddle arrived before 'testing' it out, but as you can see, my thoughts weren't mutual.

Have you been spanked with a new paddle just for the purpose of 'testing' it out?

May 2, 2012

Summertime Spanking Plans?


Hello Everyone,  

Summertime is here and I've been quite busy and therefore kinda absent (as some may have noticed).  But I am very much looking forward to our Summertime Spanking Plans coming up.

We are hoping to meet up with some new friends we've been talking to for quite some time, attend a couple of out of state parties that we haven't yet had the chance to attend before, and also check out information for possible relocation and a place for just Todd and me (no more privacy issues, the 'baby' is all grown up and on his own!)

While I'll miss our son terribly, I'll only be a nagging phone call away lol, and I am anxiously awaiting being able to invite over our friends for the day or for the week without concerning myself about who will stop over un-announced (my mom lives not too far from us now) or who's home and might question the smacking sound echoing through the halls :)  

Also, I'm such a party girl, the idea of possibly being in Nevada thrills me to the core.   Not only for the parties and groups that we know already exist there, as well as many friends who live there, but also just the bright lights, big city atmosphere I've so missed being in the 'sticks' for the last 5 years.

On the way home (we obviously will have things to tie up back at the house...no kinky pun intended) we will stop by some very spankable friends houses along the way and enjoy some vanilla and spanking fun with them.  Let us know if you would like to meet and are somewhere in the path of Nevada to Florida and maybe we can meet up for at least a quick face to face meeting somewhere along the way :)

So... what are your Summertime Spanking Plans?  (or if no specific Spanking plans, share your vanilla plans!)


April 15, 2012

SSU Roll Call :)

The SSU is having it's first Roll Call this year and would like all SSU members to comment and let us know they are here and also give us an update on when they had their last spanking.  Any other additional info they'd like to add would be welcomed :)

We have 22 members as of today and many of them are already actively commenting on the posts so we are off to a very good start!

Here are our list of members, as they check in, it will be updated:

Suzy - Union Leader 

*      Abby said...
Last spanking - last Tuesday - my Birthday!



*    Chef Maxine said...
My last spanking was about two weeks ago for discipline. Afraid I am in for another one real soon!

Cool Laura

* Clue-finding Cookie said... My last spanking was Sunday. I am here a little late but still here LOL.




*        Jeanette said...
My last spanking was in November. Long distance relationships are no fun!

*     Justice Jean said... I'm here. 
I had one spanking from Todd when I visited.
I also had one from a friend weeks ago when I visited there.



*   Lea said...I'm around. :-)
I got spanked on Thursday. It's been way too long. ;-)



Saucy Sandy

*       Scunge said... Robert says none of your business ;)
(it was last Sunday) we have privacy issues.



*       Wolfesspup said:  Here when i can be lol....
I havnt had another spanking since my first one abt 4 months ago...

April 12, 2012

Arousal.. Before, During and/or After

I was reading some posts the other day and noticed that no matter how direct, how clearly stated, how simply a question about whether someone gets aroused before, during or after spanking was asked, it was immediately met with a run down of how off limits it is, how it should be agreed upon beforehand, etc.. etc... 
I'm curious why this question gets such immediate negativity and assumptions of impropriety.  Is sexual arousal automatically a bad thing?  While I realize (and if I didn't there are thousands of posts about it lol) that one shouldn't just assume a spanking warrants sexual ACTIVITY.  The act of arousal is typically (as far as I've always felt) an uncontrolled thing.  It happens or it doesn't happen.  You don't decide it.  Now this may not be the case for everyone (which is why I figure the question is posted in the first place), so it would be nice if people would just answer the question rather than go on a tangent about something quite different than arousal.

So on that note, I'm going to ask all SSU members and the readers of this blog (spankers and spankees) to Share your honest opinion of sexual AROUSAL before, during and after a Spanking :)

Thanks and hope you are all having a great week!


April 7, 2012

Ask Men.................uh.. why? :)

***Update***   Some of our SSU members have given their thoughts on this article, shown below. This is a big part of what the SSU is all about.. thanks ladies for your input!!!

While wasting time waiting for Todd to finish his Baseball crap, I stumbled upon this site called 

Ask Men... become a better man.. 

I immediately started smiling and several sarcastic remarks came to mind.

"Where has this site been and I know at least 2 ex husbands who should read it"    

"Ask men eh? but would they listen long enough to hear the question?"

"for what? directions?"

Once I stopped giggling, I started checking it out more thoroughly and they had an article about Spanking, so I figured that would be cool to share :)

Check it out  An Introduction to Spanking  and share your thoughts on this site and on their opinions on how men should go about getting started spanking their partners.

Would be great to hear thoughts from both men and women on this topic.

Abby said...
Some value here but I'd like to see it written minus the sex stuff. I'd like to share with my spouse but he already thinks sex stuff goes on at the parties. Vanillas have a hard time believing adults can gather for TYWD without inappropriate touching. 
Just my opinion.

Jeanette said...
I have read this article before and I found myself rolling my eyes for the second time. It's not totally bad advice but it does not really sound like it was written by a spanko with real life experience. 

"don't forget that you shouldn't spank her in quick procession"

I guess my Jim didn't get the memo on this one.

"Just to reiterate; never smack both cheeks at the same time"

Or this one. He thinks that drum beat thing is funny.

"Don't ask things like "Did that hurt?" or "Can I do it harder?" What you should do is spank her and judge what to do by her reaction."

I completely disagree with this statement. If you have never spanked before how do you know how to judge the reactions of your spankee accurately? Everyone reacts differently and has a different tolerance level. Communication is so important and I feel that this is one main piece of actual bad advice in the article. 

April 5, 2012

Birthday Spankings... Yay or Nay?

Today one of our members, Abby, posted that her last spanking was last Tuesday and it was a Birthday spanking!


Now automatically we assume that's a good, fun, friendly type of spanking.. but it's possible that some people get hard, stern, and embarrassing spankings on their birthday as well. 

Maybe Abby will elaborate and tell us more about her birthday spanking, and it would also be great if the other SSU members would give their Birthday Spanking Stories as well.

Abby was so kind to share the details with us, here is what she said...
 My husband (Very Vanilla) asked me what I wanted for my BD this year. I told him since I couldn't get anywhere to get spanked (no parties near my BD time) that he would have to do it. He does not LIKE doing this at all, but I made him "practice" for the week prior - over his lap, on the couch, over a stool, on the bed. Soooooo, the evening of my BD, I had to lead HIM up the stairs and prompt him by laying out some implements I thought he'd be comfortable using. We start out bare because he can't hit very hard anyway and I like a little heavier play. So, he began with a small leather tawse, moved through a few paddles (breaking one plastic one on me) and ending with a large Lexan one. We lost count for sure but I know it was at least 100 with each(although I just turned 1/2 that!). It was fun and the best I can expect from a very vanilla guy. The result, unfortunately left me cut on my left cheek (wooden spoon, I think) and he feels terrible that he caused that. So, hoping very much to heal before the SCONY weekend that will be here in just 10 days!!! 

Thanks for sharing that with us Abby, glad to hear your bottom is recovering nicely :)

I know one year, Todd went over each and every year since the year of my birth and talked about it and then spanked me for it based on what I was probably behaved like during that year.  Thankfully I was a very good youngster, so those were fun, but I honestly thought the teenage years were going to KILL ME!!  lol  (probably similar to how my mother felt during that same time period ;)

So what are your thoughts about (adult) Birthday spankings and have you ever gotten one and when was it?